Want to keep things hush-hush? This is how to throw a surprise birthday party—and keep the secret under wraps.
Pulling off a real surprise is one of the best birthday gifts to give. If you know the star of the party would love a surprise get-together, we’ll explain how to plan the best possible celebration!
How to Plan a Surprise Birthday Party
Choose the Location
When deciding where to throw down, keep things simple. Think about a friend’s house or a hangout spot—if you pick a familiar place, you’re more likely to keep the birthday guy or gal in the dark until the last moment.
If the gang isn’t able to get together in person, these fun Zoom ideas can keep the party going from afar.
Send Invitations
You can send a virtual invitation (or keep it traditional with paper invitations), but social media makes planning a surprise party easier than ever. Start a private Facebook group—double- (and triple-) check the privacy settings so the birthday guy or gal doesn’t catch on—or create a group chat. It will be simple to see who’s coming, send reminders, share ideas and keep everyone up-to-date on the day of.
Whatever method you decide, make sure everyone knows that it’s a surprise, so they don’t accidentally let it slip!
If They Hate Surprises…
It’s possible to throw a surprise party for someone who hates surprises. You can do a “semi-surprise” birthday party by telling them there will be a party, but not sharing any of the details. That way, they can be prepared, and you know they won’t be double-booked!
Prep for the Day of the Surprise Party
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Choose a Theme
When it comes to decorating, remember that the party should be all about the birthday guy or gal. Slyly ask them what types of parties they’ve enjoyed in the past to get a sense of their ideal decor, food and drink, and vibe. He’s a major Harry Potter fan? Transport the guests to Hogwarts with a Harry Potter party. Is she obsessed with Disney? Host an adorable Minnie Mouse party.
Here are some essential party decorations that can go a long way for an understated night or help anchor a more immersive theme:
- Pick up gold-edged paper plates for a chic take on disposable plates
- Hang a curtain of fairy lights to make any space feel more enchanted (and provide a backdrop for Insta pics)
- Inflate plenty of balloons, like this black-and-gold party pack
Don’t miss all our adult party ideas for grown-ups who love a theme!
Plan the Menu
Your nibbles should reflect your birthday honoree’s favorites. Do they have a sweet tooth? You’ll want to pack the dessert table or plan a candy bar buffet. Do they make kombucha and love to run 10Ks? Then whip up fresh, healthy entrees.
The best prep is simple and delivers delicious results—opt for canapes and small bites (and enlist some friends to help you whip up the menu)!
Here are some of our go-to party recipes:
- Champagne Punch: This blend of champagne and citrus juice is refreshing and easy to make in big batches. Garnish with some fresh fruit. (These plastic champagne flutes look classy and will make cleanup a breeze.)
- Peach Mocktails: Peach meets club soda in this sweet and refreshing drink that even the kids can sip.
- Stuffed Mushrooms: This appetizer looks (and tastes!) like you’re right out of culinary school, but it comes together easily, and will satisfy any gluten-free or vegetarian guests.
- Birthday Cupcakes: Cupcakes are often easier to serve than a traditional cake.
Keep the Surprise a Surprise
You’ve done all the hard work. Just make sure nothing will tip off the guest-of-honor at the last minute! Remind guests not to post on social media ahead of time. Make sure no one parks on the street or near the venue, so the birthday guy or gal won’t become suspicious when arriving.
Take the Birthday Star Out Beforehand
While it might be tempting to downplay the impending festivities, remember that the guest of honor will want to feel great when they walk into the party. Take them out of a day of pampering or co*cktails so they’ll already feel special—and will be dressed and ready for the surprise event!
Plan Transportation
Have a plan in place for who will bring the guest of honor to the party. Designate one or two people to escort them to the party location, under the guise of going out for dinner or swinging by a friend’s place. That way, if everyone’s traveling together, they can’t cancel or arrive late.
Unveil the Big Surprise
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The moment you’ve been waiting for! The birthday guest has arrived, and it’s time to reveal the surprise. But just like when planning the party, the unveiling should be customized to the guest of honor’s preferences, too.
- If they’re a fan of surprises, have your gang hidden in the next room, ready to jump up and scream, “Surprise!” (Don’t forget the confetti and noisemakers!)
- If they’re always snapping photos to document their day, set up a camera to capture the moment.
- If they prefer something more low-key, let the surprise happen gradually as they enjoy the party and slowly realize all their friends are together in one place.
Party Dishes So Good You Won't Have Leftovers
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Apple-Gouda Pigs in a BlanketFor New Year’s, I used to make pigs in a blanket with beef and cheddar. But now I like apple and Gouda for an even better flavor celebration. —Megan Weiss, Menomonie, Wisconsin
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Vegetarian Buffalo DipA friend made Buffalo chicken dip and that got me thinking about creating a vegetarian dip with the same flavors. This addictive dip is so amazing, no one will miss the meat. —Amanda Silvers, Old Fort, Tennessee
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Meatballs with Chimichurri SauceThis South American condiment, featuring fresh cilantro and parsley, is more than just a sauce for tossing with meatballs. You’ll want plenty for extra dipping. —Amy Chase, Vanderhoof, British Columbia
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Chili Cornbread SaladA co-worker brought this wonderful dish to a potluck several years ago. She had copies of the recipe next to the pan. Now I make it for get-togethers and also supply copies of the recipe. I never have any leftover salad or recipes. —Kelly Newsom, Jenks, Oklahoma
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Fruit and Cheese BoardWho says cheese and sausage get to have all the fun? Make this fruit charcuterie board a party go-to with any that are in season. —Taste of Home Test Kitchen
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Party ShrimpThe marinade for this dish makes the shrimp so flavorful, you won't even need a dipping sauce. Even those who claim they don’t like shellfish really dig this appetizer. —Kendra Doss, Colorado Springs, Colorado
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Antipasto PlatterWe entertain often, and an antipasto platter is one of our favorite crowd-pleasers. Guests love having their choice of so many delicious nibbles, including pepperoni and cubes of provolone. —Teri Lindquist, Gurnee, Illinois
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Cashew-Chicken Rotini SaladI’ve tried many chicken salad recipes over the years, but this is my very favorite. It’s fresh, fruity and refreshing, and the cashews add wonderful crunch. Every time I serve it at a potluck or picnic, I get rave reviews—and ( always come home with an empty bowl! —Kara Cook, Elk Ridge, Utah
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Peanut Butter Custard Blast"Ooey, gooey, great!" is how friends and family describe this chocolate-peanut butter dessert. I appreciate the make-ahead convenience. —Marilee Evenson, Wisconsin Rapids, Wisconsin
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Bacon, Cheddar and Swiss Cheese BallWhen it’s time for a party, everyone always requests this ultimate cheese ball—it’s such an impressive appetizer. And if you’re a party guest, it makes a fabulous gift for your hosts.—Sue Franklin, Lake St. Louis, Missouri
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Sweet Macaroni SaladA sweet out-of-the-ordinary dressing makes this macaroni salad special. My aunt gave me the recipe and it has become one of my favorites. I occasionally leave out the green pepper if I know that people don't like it, and it still tastes great. —Idalee Scholz, Cocoa Beach, Florida
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Hot Collards and Artichoke DipAnyone can pull off spinach and artichoke dip—so brighten it up using collard greens for a southern twist. Serve this dish with warm garlic naan or tortilla chips. —Billie Williams-Henderson, Bowie, Maryland
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Chunky Mango GuacamoleWhen serving a crowd, double or quadruple this guacamole. The onion, tomato and mango can be chopped in advance. Add avocado just before serving. —Diana Nienberg, McComb, Ohio
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Almond-Bacon Cheese CrostiniFor a change from the usual toasted tomato appetizer, try this baked crostini recipe. If you like, slice the baguette at an angle instead of making a straight cut. —Leondre Hermann, Stuart, Florida
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Party Appetizer MeatballsThese are a favorite at parties and gatherings. The recipe is easy, and the meatballs can be made well ahead of time and frozen until needed. I think what makes them taste so good is the sauce. —Nathalie Guest, Caledon, Ontario
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Sesame Chicken DipI can't tell you how many times I'm asked to bring this easy dip to holidays, birthday parties or girls' weekend getaways. It's fresh and light, and it has the Asian flavors that make it stand out. The rice crackers are a must! —Dawn Schutte, Sheboygan, Wisconsin
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Ranch Snack MixThis is a wonderful fast-to-fix munchie. The recipe makes tons and doesn't involve any cooking. It's a cinch to package in individual snack bags, it keeps its crunch and it's a savory alternative to the cakes and pies usually offered at bake sales. —Linda Murphy, Pulaski, Wisconsin
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Potluck Macaroni and CheeseYou'll always have a winner at the potluck when you bring macaroni and cheese. Here's an extra-rich, creamy version for the slow cooker. —Jennifer Blondek, Chicopee, Massachusetts
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Best Ever Beans and SausageWhen my wife asks what she should make for a gathering, she's always told to bring this—and a couple of copies of the recipe! — Robert Saulnier, Clarksburg, Massachusetts
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Layered Fresh Fruit SaladPeople always pass on compliments when I take this salad to covered-dish suppers. It's nice on a hot day...with a winter meal...or as a dessert! We live on a small farm where my garden gives me lots of possibilities for fresh food. —Page Alexander, Baldwin City, Kansas
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Cheesy Corn Spoon BreadHomey and comforting, this custardlike side dish is a much-requested recipe at potlucks and holiday dinner parties. The jalapeno adds just the right bite. Second helpings of this tasty casserole are common—leftovers aren't. —Katherine Franklin, Carbondale, Illinois
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Crispy Baked WontonsThese quick, versatile wontons are great for a savory snack or paired with a bowl of soothing soup on a cold day. I usually make a large batch, freeze half on a floured baking sheet, then store in an airtight container. —Brianna Shade, Beaverton, Oregon
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Buffalo Chicken DipThis is the best Buffalo chicken dip recipe! Whenever I bring Buffalo dip to a tailgate or potluck, everyone asks for the recipe. —Peggy Foster, Florence, Kentucky
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Zesty Marinated ShrimpThese easy shrimp look impressive on a buffet table and taste even better! The zesty sauce has a wonderful spicy citrus flavor. I especially like this recipe because I can prepare it ahead of time. —Mary Jane Guest, Alamosa, Colorado
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12-Hour SaladThis recipe was Mom's scrumptious scheme to get her kids to eat vegetables. She never had any trouble when she served this colorful crunchy salad. Mom thought this salad was a real bonus for the cook since it must be made the night before. —Dorothy Bowen, Thomasville, North Carolina
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Party FranksThese tiny, tangy appetizers have broad appeal. I prepare them often for holiday gatherings, weddings and family reunions. They're convenient to serve at parties since the sauce can be made ahead and then reheated with the franks before serving. —Lucille Howell, Portland, Oregon
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Pizza Pasta CasseroleKids will line up for this zippy pizza-flavored dish. The recipe makes two casseroles, so you can serve one to your family right away and keep the other in the freezer for another night. —Nancy Scarlett, Graham, North Carolina
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This is a spinoff of a Mexican dip I had once. The original was wicked good, but since I was going through an "I’m-so-over-Mexican-dip" phase, I decided to switch it up. Take it to a party—I'll bet you no one else will bring anything like it! —Mandy Rivers, Lexington, South Carolina
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Smoked Salmon Deviled Eggs with DillMy family is of Danish heritage, and my husband makes our smoked salmon. To use it, I came up with these dilly deviled eggs. They're a real treat and nice addition to any meal. —Charlotte Giltner, Mesa, Arizona
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Mushroom BundlesMy guests rely on me to come up with yummy starters like these crispy mushroom appetizers made for a New Year's party. They vanish before your eyes. —Tina Coopman, Toronto, Ontario
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Peanut Butter Kiss CookiesEveryone who tries these beloved gems is amazed that they use only five ingredients. Baking cookies doesn't get much easier than this. —Dee Davis, Sun City, Arizona
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Chicken Salad Party SandwichesMy famous chicken salad arrives at the party chilled in a plastic container. When it’s time to set out the food, I stir in the pecans and assemble the sandwiches. They’re a hit at buffet-style potlucks. —Trisha Kruse, Eagle, Idaho
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Apricot WrapsI accumulated a large recipe collection from around the world while my husband served in the Air Force for 25 years. This mouthwatering appetizer is one of our favorites, and we enjoy sharing it with friends. —Jane Ashworth, Beavercreek, Ohio
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Bacon and Fontina Stuffed MushroomsWhat's better than lots of bacon and cheese in a mushroom cap? Yum! They'll be a hit with your guests, too. —Tammy Rex, New Tripoli, Pennsylvania
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Green Flop Jell-OGet ready for fluffy lemon-lime goodness. My family calls it "flop Jell-O" because most of the time a clear gelatin layer that tastes like lemon-lime soda falls to the bottom of the dish. Try it with any flavor gelatin! —Michelle Gauer, Spicer, Minnesota
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We love to make meals into celebrations, and antipasto always kicks off the party for Italian dinners. This one is almost too pretty to eat, especially when sprinkled with pimientos, fresh basil and parsley. —Patricia Harmon, Baden, Pennsylvania
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Whole Wheat Orzo SaladIn less than 30 minutes, I can put together this hearty salad of pasta, white beans and veggies – and it’s good for a crowd. — Mya Zeronis, Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania
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Mediterranean Layered DipThis quick and easy dip begins with purchased hummus. It's then flavored with the Mediterranean flavors of feta cheese, olives and lemon.—Patterson Watkins, Philadelphia, Pennsylvania
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Loaded Baked Potato SaladI revamped my mother's potato salad to taste more like baked potatoes with all the fixin's, which I love. This loaded baked potato salad is now the most requested dish at family gatherings. Even my mother asked for the recipe! —Jackie Deckard, Solsberry, Indiana
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Macaroni ColeslawMy friend Peggy brought this coleslaw to one of our picnics, and everyone liked it so much, we all had to have the recipe. —Sandra Matteson, Westhope, North Dakota
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Buffalo Wing BitesThe Buffalo wing fans in my family were happy to do the taste testing as I was experimenting to create these zingy snacks. This version was the winner! —Jasey McBurnett, Rock Springs, Wyoming
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Southwestern CasseroleI’ve been making this mild family-pleasing southwest casserole for years. It tastes wonderful and fits nicely into our budget. Best of all, the recipe makes a second casserole to freeze and enjoy later. —Joan Hallford, North Richland Hills, Texas
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Layered Lemon Dessert SquaresI found this recipe in an old cookbook and changed it to be extra citrusy. If you’re a fan of Key lime pie, try lime flavors instead of lemon. —Dawn E. Lowenstein, Huntingdon Valley, Pennsylvania
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Company Fruit SaladWe first tried a cream cheese fruit salad like this at a local deli. Since I couldn't get that recipe, I started mixing up different dressings until I hit on this one. Now I make this refreshing delightful salad for every picnic and get-to-gether. It can be a snack, side dish or dessert. —Connie Osterhout, Napoleon, Ohio
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Wheely-Good Pasta SaladRed pepper pieces accent this yummy side dish, and the pasta wheels really drive the theme home. —Amber Kimmich, Powhatan, Virginia
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Little Pigs in a HammockPigs in a blanket aren’t just for kids! Dijon and Camembert transform this children’s favorite into a version that’s perfect for grown-ups. —Crystal Schlueter, Northglenn, Colorado
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Curried Crab SpreadAt holiday time, I always have cream cheese and crabmeat on hand. In case of drop-ins, I just mix up an easy spread by adding mango chutney and spices. —Jennifer Phillips, Goffstown, New Hampshire
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Brownie Batter DipI’m all about the sweeter side of dips, and this brownie-batter variety fits in with my life’s philosophy: Chocolate makes anything better. Grab some fruit, cookies or salty snacks and start dunking. —Mel Gunnell, Boise, Idaho
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Popcorn CookiesIt's so much fun to surprise people with the crushed popcorn in these yummy cookies. They're definitely a distinctive cookie on the holiday tray.—Leigh Anne Preston, Palmyra, Indiana
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